Yeah, everybody has seen it. As usual i got chance to watch it last night first time. Thanks to my wife. Wonderful movie!
Few things touched me were, Protecting your dreams, Claiming ownership of your dream, dont let someone to tell you that you cant achieve. Important to have a dream and then work towards it with all power.
I liked it more may be I am on journey of pursuing happiness for me, my wife and family. I want all of them to be happy. Past sometime has been bit tragic. On both professional as well on personal front.
It was hard to leave my 6 years old relationship with my employer to join my wife in UK. I moved to UK without job. I never thought of this situation. But then my company could not find any work opportunity in UK and hence had to leave. I was disappointed and also empty handed. But, it was till i resigned. Once i resigned and moved to UK with wife, seems things are not so bad. Though i have not found job yet here not even an interview call for job. But enjoying my stay with my wife.
Most important thing, i am knowing myself well. Everyday i look at my CV and amend it, add some skills which i might have missed or removed something inappropriate. I consider this time as of self-reflections. I think what i know and what not which i never got a chance while i was employed, working from one project to another and just finishing mundane work. Now, i realize it so important to develop yourself then only developing solutions for some MNC. It may be my mistake.
Also, one should be ready with good skills and CV at all time. And in IT particularly where skills gets changed quite quickly, you need to keep learning new things and adding it to resume. You might not get chance to work on all the things at work, but try to do hands on at home. Do some volunteering for some NGO, where you can implement a solution with new technology.
It important at all time you be, Sellable. Yea, might sound too low but it’s true. We all sell ourselves in this market and those who add value to their profile moves ahead.
Another impotant thing is, you need to have a dream. Without dream you would end no where. This is not theoratical, i never believed in this thing, like to have a dream and all. But now i am realizing, after 7 years in IT what i want to be. I never thoghout of it. I was in a stupid situation where i never thought of leaving company, never. In last 6 yrs tenure with my previous organization i never thought of leaving it. May be it was my comfort zone. No doubt it’s a very well managed organization. But what about me? Was i growing there? I guess in last few years my progress was quite slow. But i was happy as i had work to do when i was up every morning. I never put a thought what is market relevant? Or am i doing something which i should do to help my position in market?
I never demanded that i want to work on such skill/technology/project in 6 years. I was always picked by some manager and then worked for them. I never selected project. I never set goals that now i should add this to my profile/CV etc. I never asked for promotions/change of project. Important thing was that i was finding reasons for not being promoted to support the decision of the management. Which i should not have.
It’s first you, who have to believe that you deserve better. You deserve promotion. And that’s it. Aaart from that eveything will fall in place.
I always believed my work should speak for me. And i have always been dedicated. But i was not smart. Everybody ought to work hard, some work smartly. You focus what you gain from it. And believe me, it’s not about being selffish and choosing yourself over company. No. You can demand the best in the company/organization, and that best would be good for company as well. So in a way when you demand you will be in driver seat.
More later. Good Luck.